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Problems

Hardships are normal in every relationship, couple usually encounter difficulties, if the foundation of the relationship is strong, it won’t be threaten by any problem that will arise between them, they will merely consider it as a trial that soon will be solve and will even make the relationship stronger. Relationship is like a bonfire, and problems is like the wind, that if the relationship is strong, no matter how harsh the wind blows, love will endure the situation & will not die, it even get stronger, while on the other hand if the relationship is weak, even small wind could kill it instantly. Keeping a Good relationship needs patience in dealing with situation that will arise as the relationship grows.

 

Keeping a good Relationship Tips & Advice

 

Long Distance Relationship

Keeping a good relation with this situation is quite difficult unless the love for each other is true, then this will still survive despite of the obstacle within. Keeping the relationship alive needs constant communication, since the only way to bridge the gap is through communication, by simple giving a call or sending text messages would mean a lot to your partner, it will make your partner feel that he/she is important to you, that he is cared for and most of all that he is loved by you since you are physically apart. Sometimes sending gift and love letters on special occasion could help in keeping a good relationship despite the long distance situation. You must also set time to at least meet each other for a month or two, and be there when you’re needed to make your partner feel special & important. And always keep in touch. Love needs honesty, loyalty, understanding and constant communication to keep a good long distance relationship alive.
 

Dealing with Jealousy

Either of the one in a relationship experience jealousy, it is feeling of which when your partner get close to someone, you somehow develop an emotion of being fearful & insecure. You feel the fear and insecurity because you are afraid that your partner might get involve to someone of the opposite sex, which might give him a chance to fall for another. You feel jealous when you are less cared & love, but mostly you get jealous when your partner unintentionally makes you feel unwanted & taken for granted. But to keep a good relationship you need to overcome jealousy and that is through TRUST, you need to trust your partner so you could live with your life without any doubts or fear of losing your partner, since doubt is the root cause of jealousy. Make GOD the center of your relationship; god will surely lead you to the right way, a life full of love, respect, and no jealousy. Have FAITH in GOD and have faith in your relationship that if you both love each other then jealousy would not cause a single trouble between you & your partner.

 

Avoiding Heartbreaks

Heartaches are common to lovers; it states that when you fall in love, you automatically allow yourself to get hurt. Because when you are in love, you begin to open yourself to your partner, you share the same thoughts, problems, ideas and feelings, but you also give your partner a chance to hurt you or worst comes to worst to betray you. But can we really avoid heartaches? I think it’s a YES, because you have the power to control yourself, It is also your call to say NO, and whether to say YES to someone, because you are in charge of your own feelings that whatever situation you may be, you take responsibility of you own, including your dating choices, to whom you are going to entrust your heart and your life and by not allowing unworthy person right from the start to take part in your life. Listen to your instinct when dealing with other people, sometimes we are blinded of what we see because of what we feel, that’s why people tend to be bounded in heartaches. Remember preventing to get hurt is Easier than recovering from a bunch of heartaches & anger. Be responsible enough for your feelings so you could keep a good relationship forever, happily ever after.

 
Know What SHE Wants from a HE

Commonly ladies do get first attracted with the physical appearance of a guy, by the way he dress, the way he carries himself, his built and bearing, his eyes & his lips, some women also consider the religious belief of the man and of course the family background. And then later on she deals with his character and attitude. Being gentleman really do counts. But being sweet and thoughtful would be most appreciated. But still it is better to have both the looks and the character. Because even He is a good looking person if he then have a rotten personality then it is a big TURN-OFF. Character really do counts, because it’s better to live a life beside an ugly man but with a good heart & attitude, than live with a good looking man who keeps on hurting you & not giving you any respect.

 

Know What HE Wants from a SHE

Men subconsciously deals more on physical aspect of a woman, they look for beauty and face of a woman, their body figure, the way she dress, her smooth & soft skin and her sweet intense smell. A man deals more with physical attraction rather than inner attributes. That’s why men are naturally polygamous. They easily switch feelings, they love and let go easily since they are only physically attached to their partner to sooth their urges & manly needs. But there are some men who can fall in love deeply, a love which involves emotional feelings and not only physical attractions, when that happens men become deadly romantic which captivates the heart of every woman. Men also seek for a loving women, the one who is sweet, thoughtful, caring, understanding & the one who stay's by him side even trials come their way, it’s a love that last for a lifetime which keep the relationship alive.

 

LOVESCOPE

For the Ladies:

Make your man feel loved, send him sweet messages, or better yet pay him a visit after work to make his whole week inspired by your love.

For the Gentlemen:

Send your sweetheart a bunch of flowers, with a special note of your sweet thoughts; it's a great treat for this week.

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