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Trust
Trusting your partner is very vital in a relationship to eliminate the root of doubts and arguments. Trust is the glue that holds couple together, it will keep a good relationship between couples. you develop self confidence and feel at ease with your partner, entrusting him your life and your happiness. But you must be careful of whom you trust your life with, you must first analyzed the attitude and characteristics of a person before you commit with them to avoid a failing relationship, it’s somewhat a preventive measure, so if you think you'll be bouncing off to a big rock instead of a pillow then better back-off. Trust is something that needs to be earned by a person; you need to gain someone's trust before they fully trust you back. A doubtful personality would have a difficulty in earning trust, though it is essential in having a good and successful relationship still you need to work hard so you could gain Trust. You can gain trust by simple being truthful to what you say, what you had promised, or even by being on time to a particular date you set. You need to make your partner feel that they can depend on you and that is trust, and of course you need to feel the same way too. But once the trust is broken, it would be so hard to gain it back. It’s just like putting back a broken jar glass together, that even you patch it up, you can still see the traces of the broken part, and some marks will never be erased, that's why you need to take care of one's trust and make sure not to ruin it, because it takes hundred days to win someone's trust and only one single act to destroy it. Lesson is, both couple shall give trust to their partner, so that doubts & jealousy are avoided and that will surely make a good relationship last forever. |