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UNDERSTANDING
It is the oil of every relationship, it will help the relationship keep on moving smoothly, by means of showing concern to the other, and being patient to whatever situation you might have been, because somehow problems would arise and it will test your patience, and if you give-in, relationship will end. But if you try to be more understanding and be an open minded person then you'll see that if your partner really do love you, then they will never do things against you and your relationship, it’s just that not all things happens the way you want it to. Example, not all the time both of you could be together at the time you wanted, there might have been hindrances, such as work related matters, or sometimes family events, but if you could just take time to understand, you'll lose nothing, because at the end of the day both of you will still end up loving each other, so why waste time hating your partner because of little things they couldn’t do for you. It could have been your partner really wants to set a date with you, but because of some problems at work or at home, your partner couldn’t make it, but you must not get upset nor disappointed about this, because surely your partner will make it up to you some other time, you just need to understand the situation your partner might have been to avoid further arguments and misunderstanding, you also need to talk things out if incase you feel uncomfortable with some matters that is happing in your relationship, you need to discuss it with your partner so both of you will understand each other and not by keeping grudges between the two of you, because it will only worsen the situation, you must not let problems pass you by, because sooner or later it will still arise and it will cause trouble in your relationship. Yet understanding is the key to a happy and reluctant relationship. |
